But it wasn't my life. I felt like I was on some weird vacation, but with way more "real" going on. I learned an important and defining lesson. I had branched out too far. I am a person of my roots, turns out.
These roots.
Luckily, upon my return to Connecticut, I found this.
Which lead to this.
Then this...
Soon after, this...
And now...this.
So here we are. Surviving as adventure-seeking, rock-climbing, mountain-biking, ski-bumming, mountain lovers. In Connecticut.
"Get the days" is a term a friend and I coined a while back (a friend that has endured several adventures with us). Here in CT, you truly have to "get the days". They are not handed to you sunshine-y, dry and temperate. "The days" here are whatever you can gear up against, scramble out the door after and grab on to as they change quickly from one season to the next, sometimes within hours. And you have to be ready to make a lot outta not that much.
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| Exhibit A - Me on not much |
CT makes you work. It makes you seek and find. It makes you research, hypothesize, plan. It makes you gear up, gear down and pack like you're gunning for an award.
CT makes you try hard. We get tired of top roping and finally sack up to lead trad, because, that's what there is in CT. We learn to love our rocky, root-y, technical mountain biking terrain. We ski anywhere, anything really, to be able to earn our turns.
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| Difficult to choose a line in such pristine conditions. |
In this blog, I hope to shine some light on our little east coast psych, on our family-style adventures, on the community that shapes our "normal" and on the success and failure met when you live to "get the days".











